Aku tadi test 16 personalities. Hasilnya keluar adalah INFJ-A. Testnya bisa disini:
Overview INFJ dibilang personality yang paling langka. Weisss siapa yang gak seneng kalau kita dibilang orang yang langka/unique. Untuk reading yang free, cukup banyak info yang disedikan kayak romantic-relationship, friendsip, parenthood dkk. Tapi sekarang kita bahas info strength and weaknessnya aja:
Strength
Creative – Advocates aren’t exactly like everyone else – and that’s a wonderful thing. People with this personality type embrace their creative side, always on the lookout for opportunities to express themselves and think outside the box.
Selalu ada urge untuk menjadi kreatif. Tapi karena kreatif kebanyakan perlu energi yang lebih bayak, jadinya tidak pernah dilakukan. Tapi kalau ada kreatif yang low effort biasanya dikerjakan
Insightful – These personalities know all too well that appearances can be misleading. Advocates strive to move beyond superficiality and seek out the deeper truths in life. This can give them an almost uncanny ability to understand people’s true motivations, feelings, and needs.
Aku selalu mencari kebenaran. Kita harus mencari kebenaran, bukan specialisasi dari traits INFJ aja. Karena kebenaran itu, yaa sesuatu yang benar. Benar = Baik. Tapi Benar ≠ happy. Kebenaran itu seringkali menyakitkan.
Principled – Advocates tend to have strong beliefs and values, particularly when it comes to matters of ethics. When Advocates talk about topics close to their heart, their conviction and heartfelt idealism can inspire and persuade even the sternest of skeptics.
Punya value itu enak. Kita bisa mengeliminasi semua yang bertentangan dengan value kita, dan memberikan energi lebih banyak ke sesuatu yang sesuai value.
Passionate – Advocates crave a sense of purpose in life. Rather than living on autopilot or sticking to the status quo, they want to chase after their ideals. This isn’t a personality type that shies away from big dreams – in fact, Advocates are energized and impassioned by the beauty of their visions for the future.
Kondisiku sekarang lebih ke percaya sistem. Rutinitas kecil yang dilakukan konstan, dan kepercayaan atas rutinitas itu bisa membawa kita mendekat ke goal yang kita inginkan. Aku gak bilang aku passionate.
Altruistic – People with this personality type aren’t happy to succeed at another person’s expense. Advocates want to use their strengths for the greater good, and they rarely lose sight of how their words and actions might affect others. In their heart of hearts, they want to make the world a better place, starting with the people around them.
Semua orang aku yakin mau melakukan ini. Tapi turn out cuma bisa melakukan ke dirinya sendiri, atau atleast ke orang sekitar (party) karena ini tuh susah.
Weakness
Sensitive to Criticism – Advocates aren’t averse to feedback – that is, unless they believe that someone is challenging their most cherished principles or values. When it comes to the issues that are near and dear to them, people with this personality type can become defensive or dismissive.
Aku yakin kritik pertama itu pasti menyakitkan. Karena kita belum tau mana kritik yang memang kritik atau kritik yang cuma mau attack. Yang pertama selalu terasa menyerang. Setelah tau bedanya, baru kita bisa memfilter. Kritik mana yang worth untuk dialokasikan energi, kritik mana yang kita buang aja.
Reluctant to Open Up – Advocates value honesty and authenticity, but they’re also private. They may find it difficult to open up and be vulnerable about their struggles, not wanting to burden someone else with their issues. Unfortunately, when Advocates don’t ask for help, they may inadvertently hold themselves back or create distance in their relationships.
Yang aku percaya, as a man, ketika pria itu menangis gak akan ada yang peduli, bahkan sesama pria pun. Berangkat darisana, menurutku become vulnerable is useless (untuk aku). Aku akan become vulnerable apabila itu bisa solve the problem. Kalau solusi atas masalah itu adalah menjadi vulnerable, dll baru aku vulnerable.
Perfectionistic – The Advocate personality type is all but defined by idealism. While this is a wonderful quality in many ways, it doesn’t always leave room for the messiness of real life. Advocates might find it difficult to appreciate their jobs, living situations, or relationships if they’re continually fixating on imperfections and wondering whether they should be looking for something better.
Ini weakness pertama yang aku rasakan semenjak SMA. So far sudah sadar dan progressnya sudah lumayan ok.
Avoiding the Ordinary – Advocates yearn to do extraordinary things with their lives. But it’s hard to achieve anything extraordinary without breaking it down into small, manageable steps. Unless they translate their dreams into everyday routines and to-do lists, Advocates may struggle to turn their grand visions into reality.
Ini kurang lebih after effect dari keinginan untuk kreatif
Prone to Burnout – Advocates’ perfectionism and reserve leave them with few options for letting off steam. People with this personality type can exhaust themselves if they don’t balance their drive to help others with necessary self-care and rest.
Setelah kesadaran akan perfeksionis, efek negatif yang paling aku sering jumpai adalah ini. Burnout itu sesimple karena kurang istirahat. Body and mind. Orang yang tidak perfeksionispun bisa burn out. Istirahat yang cukup. Avoid this at all. Kerja kerjas sampai burnout bukanlah achievement.
Mengetahui ini cukup menyenangkan. Karena test ini bukan kayak “oo aku kayak gitu”, tapi lebih ke “ih kok dia tau aku banget”.